A Dad, a Son and a Baseball Glove

Our dad taught my brother and me to love baseball

Sixty-five years ago, when I was 9 years old, my dad bought me my first (and only) baseball glove. My Big Bill mitt was made of genuine cowhide and fit my hand like a glove. It was made by the Cragstan sports equipment company. I learned that my model was named for Bill Renna who played for the Yankees and Red Sox in the 1950s and earned his nickname from his imposing physical stature.

As Father’s Day approached this year, I retrieved my glove from the attic. Inserting my fingers into the well-worn leather, I contemplated the countless baseballs my glove has caught. Smelling the familiar fragrance, I realized that this symbol of my childhood has also caught a multitude of memories.

I remember playing catch in the backyard with my dad and my brother. Dad would throw Marc and me grounders and fly balls. I would pretend that I was Bobby Richardson, the shortstop for the New York Yankees and my brother would pretend he was Willie Mays, the San Francisco Giants centerfielder.

I have great memories of my dad taking my brother and me to watch the Seattle Rainiers play in the shadow of the mountain after which they were named. They weren’t a major league team, but they were a farm club for the Boston Red Sox. I insisted on taking my glove in hopes of catching a foul ball.

Another memory my Big Bill glove calls to mind is a big injustice I experienced in Little League. Our coach Mr. Steffenhagen promised that anyone who hit a home run would be treated to a milkshake. Well, even though I was far from the most athletic kid on our team, I succeeded in hitting a line drive into the outfield. Because the ball was bobbled, I made it home without being tagged. I was elated.

But when I asked Coach Steffenhagen about my milkshake, he told me I didn’t qualify. What I considered a home run, he insisted was a double at best. He said the outfielder’s error was the reason I’d made it home. I was devastated. But when my father heard what had happened, Dad made good on the treat I was denied.

That old glove also reminds me of how my dad maintained his perch on the pedestal of heroism. One day after school when I visited my pastor-father at his office, I left my mitt outside the church. When we were about to get into the car and head for home, I couldn’t find my glove anywhere. Someone had stolen it. I was heartsick. My treasured Big Bill was gone for good. Or so I thought.

A week or so later, my dad saw a couple kids playing catch near the church. He noticed that one of the boys had a mitt that resembled mine. He asked to see it. Sure enough, it was mine. My name and address on the outside pocket had been inked out with a ballpoint pen. I can’t describe the joy I felt when my dad returned it to me at dinner. I’m pretty sure I slept with it under my pillow that night.

My short-lived baseball career ended as a seventh grader when I made the Babe Ruth Division. My trusty Big Bill and I did our best to capture balls hit to right field. But, alas, our best was not enough to make the cut for the junior high school team.

Yet, in spite of my lack of ability, I remain an avid baseball fan. I follow the Seattle Mariners religiously. I guard my boyhood baseball card collection with my life. And even though I no longer sleep with my mitt under my pillow, I dream of the Mariners making it to the World Series this year.

Like many men my age, I credit my dad for a love of the game that punctuated my formative years and beyond. It is because of his influence that I have successfully passed on an appreciation for baseball to my adult children and my grandchildren. And while I’m grateful for that success, I want even more to pass on to them a love for their Creator.

Waiting for an Answer

This poem was written for a friend diagnosed with cancer

Lord, You alone have the answer
to the questions cancer poses in my life.
Please show me what You have in mind.
Remind me that Your plans are kind,
that I can trust a God I cannot see.

Free me from kidnapping fear
that stalks my faith when no one’s near,
that leaves me having robbed me
of my will to battle on.

Won’t You hear my prayer
and dry my eyes?
Surprise my heart with hope
that’s grounded in Your character
and in what I know is true.

A hope that’s based on
what You’ve done
and what You yet will do.

A Word to the Wise (and Those Just Average)

Greg Asimakoupoulos and Seattle Pacific University President Deana Porterfield

So you’re about to graduate! Congratulations! As you probably know by now, I won’t be speaking at your ceremonies. I have a previous commitment. Besides, I wasn’t invited to speak. (Laugh here!) There are more deserving individuals worthy of that honor. However, if I had been given the privilege of speaking at your commencement, I would probably offer you the following advice…

This milestone in your life marks a lengthy journey of hard work. You’ve read more books than you expected. You’ve written more term papers than you thought possible. And you’ve taken more quizzes and exams than you thought you ever would.

But there is one big test you have yet to complete. It’s an examination that will last the rest of your life. When you walk across the stage to receive your diploma, someone will call your name. As they do, listen up. The mention of your name signals that you are deserving that long-awaited certificate of achievement. It will also begin the clock on what people will think or feel when seeing or hearing your name. And you alone can determine the outcome. That’s the test that still awaits.

I once saw a sign on a city bus that caught my attention. It was a challenge to employees to do their best every day they went to work. This creative motivational expression went something like this: “Every job is a self-portrait of the person doing it. So, autograph your work with excellence.”  That memorable quote attributed to Ted Key is a call to recognize that how you approach a task (no matter how small or big) is a reflection on you. Your name is on the line whenever someone associates what you say or what you do with you.

The name our parents gave us when we were born was their gift to us. It calls to mind that we are part of a family with whom we share a common name. Our shared name comes with a wealth of past associations and connections. “Oh, you’re so-and-so’s kid? Awesome!”  But that built-in credit isn’t bottomless. It’s always up for grabs. While our behavior and choices have the power to increase that credit, they can also deplete it. What we do and how we choose will bring glory or shame to our family’s name.

A legend about Alexander the Great and one of his soldiers illustrates this. A young recruit in Alexander’s army was overcome with fear and fled from the frontlines of battle. This deserter was caught running away and brought before Alexander. The general required the recruit to identify himself. “What is your name?” Alexander insisted angrily. The humiliated soldier whispered “Alexander, sir!”

Unable to hear the young deserter’s reply, Alexander asked again more forcefully.  “What is your name, soldier?” To which the soldier responded a bit more audibly, “Alexander, sir!”

Not sure he had heard the disgraced soldier correctly, Alexander the Great demanded a third time, “What? What is your name, young man?” At that the embarrassed recruit stood at attention and boldly answered “Alexander, sir! My name is Alexander!”

The esteemed general, shocked by what he’d finally heard, replied, “Soldier, change your actions or change your name!”

With that in mind, remember you take your name with you wherever you go. Leaving the comfortable confines of a familiar campus and venturing out into a rather complicated world, your name will be put to the test. Whether you go on for further education or join the workforce, you will be autographing your performance on a regular basis.

Keep in mind that your actions and choices will not take place in a vacuum. They will impact how others view you and the family from which you’ve come. Be proud of your autograph. In the process make your family proud!

The Foothills of Heaven

The cover of Greg Asimakoupoulos’ new book

The foothills of Heaven
this life has been called
marked by footprints
of what waits in store.
Eternity’s summit. Celestial air
and the promise of, oh, so much more.

The foothills of Heaven
invite us to climb
while exploring the beauty we see
in the love of a mate
and contentment at work as we wait for
what one day will be.

Every Day’s a Saturday!

The catchy slogan of many a retired person

Every day’s a Saturday
when you’re as old as I.
A weekend’s nothing special anymore.
Retirement means sleeping in
and coffee on the deck
before you do the things that you adore.

For me, it’s writing poetry
or taking photographs
or going for a long walk in the park.
For Peter, a new friend of mine,
it’s working in his yard
or blowing glass creating priceless art.

Such lazy days are not a waste.
When doing what we love,
there’s meaning and fulfillment in our play.
The stress of work is in the past.
Deadlines are six-feet-down.
No wonder every day’s a Saturday!