Tony Dow’s death calls to mind the speed at which time passes
Just leave it to Beaver to shed a few tears. It doesn’t surprise me. For so many years his big brother Wally was his best friend and more. But now his big brother is gone.
So long Wally Cleaver. So long Ward and June. So long Eddie Haskell. You left us too soon. Our “Leave it to Beaver-ville” won’t be the same with “The Beave” all alone by himself.
Yes, Tony Dow’s death made the news yesterday. It makes our hearts grieve when celebs pass away. Those we followed as fam’ly, we watched faithfully. No wonder it’s hard when they die.
Their deaths are reminders that we’re growing old. That each day’s a gift that’s more precious than gold. That now is the best time to tell those we love how we feel about them while we can.
We rack the days each month and then they break apart time and again. Our ordered plans quite randomly can find us on our heels.
We’re challenged by another’s choice that silences our eager voice and finds us angling our aims and banking (fingers crossed).
Behind the eight ball, we are blind. We’re snookered by what seems unkind. But patiently we call our shots and do the best we can.
Sometimes we scratch and lose our turn, then take our cues from from those who’ve learned that life (like pool) takes more than skill. We play what we’ve been giv’n.
Loving thoughts to a daughter from out of this world
My dearest daughter,
I know your heart is broken. As the last words spoken between us echo in your mind, please know I’m not blind to your tears.
I can imagine your fears of facing the challenges of tomorrows without being able to pick up the phone and call me.
But as Jesus told his best friends the night before He died, “Don’t let your heart be troubled! Don’t be afraid.”
This One in whose presence I now find joy will never leave you or forsake you. He will comfort you as only He can. He will carry you when you are too weak to stand. He will fill your heart with memories we made. In the heat of death valley, He will be your shade.
Please know that the time and space between us
is only a temporary separation. The gulf of grief will be spanned by grace. It won’t be long until you see my face again. Remember, a family reunion awaits.
In the meantime, care for your mom. Lean into your sorrow. Embrace the ache. Speak my name. Look at my pictures. Forgive my mistakes. Honor my memory by the choices you make.
And each morning when you wake, thank the Lord He placed us in the same family. He graced us with the privilege of being father and daughter. Be grateful He gave us each other for the years that we shared on earth (and the time we will have in Heaven).
Never forget how much I love you and how proud I am to be your dad. See you soon!