Tony Dow’s death calls to mind the speed at which time passes
Just leave it to Beaver to shed a few tears. It doesn’t surprise me. For so many years his big brother Wally was his best friend and more. But now his big brother is gone.
So long Wally Cleaver. So long Ward and June. So long Eddie Haskell. You left us too soon. Our “Leave it to Beaver-ville” won’t be the same with “The Beave” all alone by himself.
Yes, Tony Dow’s death made the news yesterday. It makes our hearts grieve when celebs pass away. Those we followed as fam’ly, we watched faithfully. No wonder it’s hard when they die.
Their deaths are reminders that we’re growing old. That each day’s a gift that’s more precious than gold. That now is the best time to tell those we love how we feel about them while we can.
Loving thoughts to a daughter from out of this world
My dearest daughter,
I know your heart is broken. As the last words spoken between us echo in your mind, please know I’m not blind to your tears.
I can imagine your fears of facing the challenges of tomorrows without being able to pick up the phone and call me.
But as Jesus told his best friends the night before He died, “Don’t let your heart be troubled! Don’t be afraid.”
This One in whose presence I now find joy will never leave you or forsake you. He will comfort you as only He can. He will carry you when you are too weak to stand. He will fill your heart with memories we made. In the heat of death valley, He will be your shade.
Please know that the time and space between us
is only a temporary separation. The gulf of grief will be spanned by grace. It won’t be long until you see my face again. Remember, a family reunion awaits.
In the meantime, care for your mom. Lean into your sorrow. Embrace the ache. Speak my name. Look at my pictures. Forgive my mistakes. Honor my memory by the choices you make.
And each morning when you wake, thank the Lord He placed us in the same family. He graced us with the privilege of being father and daughter. Be grateful He gave us each other for the years that we shared on earth (and the time we will have in Heaven).
Never forget how much I love you and how proud I am to be your dad. See you soon!
Another mass shooting finds us hugging our kids and looking to God
Uvalde grieves. We all grieve for children robbed of life at Robb Elementary.
Children who came to school in a bus and left in a hearse. Could anything be worse?
It’s hard to imagine. It’s hard to comprehend. It’s hardly elementary. It’s complicated. It’s evil.
It’s a duplicate snapshot of our wounded nation that continues to hemorrhage from the inside out.
It’s a faded photograph of a broken hearted country still unable to breathe on this second anniversary of another senseless act of violence.
It’s an image that violates the value with which those made in the Creator’s image were born.
Imago dei. You and me. In Uvalde and everywhere. A human being one with another. A human being enraged by violence. A human being open to the voice of God.