The Fragile Fabric We Call Families

How holidays stretch what’s easily torn; A New Year Dawns

The Fragile Fabric We Call Families
How holidays stretch what’s easily torn

Families.

Seems you can’t live with them
but neither can you live without them.

Families are a complicated composite
of imperfect characters
each with their own
needs,
wants,
hurts,
hopes,
dreams
and nightmares.

All the same
our families provide us
with a security blanket of unconditional love,
a homemade comforter of longed-for warmth
and a patchwork quilt of shared memories.

Yet at this time of the year
that fragile fabric can rip or fray
if not handled carefully.
It can be stretched by the stresses of the season
or stained by the blood, sweat and tears
associated with realistic gatherings
and unrealistic expectations.

Familes are God’s priceless treasure
we dare not take for granted.
They are a frabric we must handle with care
and handle with prayer.
(And gratefully,
grace is the stain remover
that takes away the water spots).

A New Year Dawns
Lyrics of hope for 2012

A new year dawns
and with it light to see
a new horizon
of what’s yet to be.
Redemption of
our flawed humanity.
Al-le-lu-ia. Al-le-lu-ia.

A new year grants
permission to be brave
as we move on from
stress’s greedy grave.
From buried dreams
and littered paths unpaved
Al-le-lu-ia. Al-le-lu-ia.

A new year means
the chance to start again.
To grant forgiveness
and to make amends.
To risk departing
from what’s always been.
Al-le-lu-ia. Al-le-lu-ia.

A new year now
invites us to look up
and drink new wine
from faith’s most ancient cup.
Let’s toast the One
whose grace is quite enough..
Al-le-lu-ia. Al-le-lu-ia.

* can be sung to the hymn tune “For All the Saints”

Dancing with the Stars (and Stripes)

It’s boogie time with the ballot box;
The Him Behind the Hymn

Dancing with the Stars (and Stripes)
It’s time to boogie with the ballot box

The right to vote is freedom’s gift.
It gives us each the chance
to stand beneath the Stars and Stripes,
kick up our heels and dance.

To vote means leaning left or right,
then waltzing with our choice.
When we embrace what’s dear to us,
our values find a voice.

But tango-ing with campaign ads
leaves most of us worn out.
The dirty dance steps they employ
results in jaded doubt.

The rumba of election day
won’t come a day too soon.
I’m weary of the non-stop spin
each morning, night and noon


The Him Behind the Hymn
Remembering Martin Luther this Reformation Day

“A Mighty Fortress is Our God”
was Martin Luther’s hymn
that took aim at the sitting Pope
and at the Vatican.

That German monk expressed his views
about indulgences,
with pen and parchment nailed his point
to sparse and faint applause.

This lonely priest said, “Here I stand!
I can do nothing less.
I will not fleece my faithful flock
and charge when they confess.”

Ah yes, young Martin thumbed his nose
and turned his back on Rome.
Rejecting manmade “rules of God”
the seeds of faith were sown.

And so on Reformation Day
we thank God for a man
who stood up most courageously
with a hammer in his hand.

* October 31st is Reformation Sunday

A Capitol Phenomenon

The Covenant Triennial turns heads in D.C.;
Transformed for Service

A Capitol Phenomenon
The Covenant Triennial turns heads in D.C.

Not far from where Michelle Obama
wakes up every day,
eleven hundred women
have converged to sing and pray.

They have gathered from St. Louis,
San Francisco and Tucson
as well as from Seattle
(in the other Washington).

There are women from Chicago,
Dallas, Nashville and Detroit
(not to mention gals from Boston
New York City and Beloit).

They have joined their hearts
to listen to the Word of God proclaimed
and to protest human trafficking
that keeps young girls in chains

It’s a Covenant “camp meeting”
in the middle of D.C.
where the world can hear the heartbeat
of its Women’s Ministries.

Transformed for Service
The “unofficial” Triennial hymn

With unveiled faces they are reflecting
God’s awesome glory for all to see
They are a mirror of grace and goodness
and of the power by which we’re free.

With upraised arms they humbly acknowledge
a transformation from what they were.
God’s endless mercy new every morning
is ever faithful, steadfast and sure.

With outreached hands they join with each other,
sisters united in God’s great cause.
Theirs is His mission birthing potential
in those now victims of broken laws.

With grateful hearts they worship the Savior
who by His Spirit makes us all new.
We are His body remade to serve Him
in what we say and in what we do.

* the above can be sung to the tune for “Morning Has Broken”

** The theme of TXIII is Reflecting God’s Glory and is based on 2 Cor. 3:18 “And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.”

*** to read more about The Triennial Conference of Women’s Ministries of The Evangelical Covenant Church, go to www.covchurch.org

A Step of Faith

A college graduate’s aspiration;
High School Graduation (Revisited)

A Step of Faith
A college graduate’s aspiration 

A step a faith into an unknown future
I now must take with prayer that God will lead.
My yesterdays morph into new tomorrows
where open doors invite me to succeed.
By stepping out I know I’ll make a difference
within a world of endless hurt and need.

A step of faith seems scary and uncertain.
It’s hard to trust in what I cannot see.
But all the same I long for things I’ve dreamed of…
a world at peace the way that it should be.
By stepping out with confidence and courage
dreams can come true if I will just believe.

A step of faith requires risk and reason
to take a chance that’s based on what I know.
What I have learned is prologue to my future.
Past opportunities have helped me grow.
By stepping out I’ll dance with countless choices
aware of God from whom all blessings flow.

* the above lyrics can be sung to the tune FINLANDIA

High School Graduation (Revisited)
Poetic reflections on a timeless rite-of-passage
 
In June of 1970
I clasped that parchment. Wow!
The world back then was so unlike
the way it is right now.
 
And yet some things seem locked in time
just as they were back then.
Take graduations from twelfth grade…
It’s like it’s always been.
 
The names are read while graduates
arrayed in gown and cap
parade across a high school stage
while parents cheer and clap.
 
With cameras focused on their child
each mom and dad express
a sigh of joy and some relief.
Their kid has claimed success.
 
Not much has changed in 40 years.
Commencements are the same.
There’s Pomp and Circumstance and then
how speakers place the blame
 
on world events like oil spills,
or inner-city crime,
political shenanigans,
how unemployment climbs.
 
They rail against the way life is
encouraging the grads
to challenge what the culture boasts
like fleeting trends and fads.
 
But how much of what speakers say
is heard by those in gowns?
My hunch is most of what is said
resembles senseless sounds.
 
And yet I’m not all that perturbed.
These seniors soon will see
just what it takes to change the world.
That’s how it worked for me.
 
A year or two away from home
at college or a job
will find these grads in “learning mode”
and calling out on God.

* In June 1970 I graduated from Wenatchee High School in North Central Washington State. I look forward to attending my 40th class reunion this summer.

A Fatherless Fathers’ Day

Facing my first holiday without my dad;
Abba Father, We Adore You

A Fatherless Fathers’ Day
Facing my first holiday without my dad
 
My dad is gone and there’s a hole
within my heart and in my soul.
A hole that no one else can fill
though countless memories try.
 
And though my dad has passed away,
I’ll try to celebrate a day
that by its name assumes you have
a father in your life.
 
I’ll stop to visit at his grave,
sift through old birthday gifts I gave,
flip pages in an old scrapbook
with photos of us two.
 
I’ll pen a poem ‘bout this man
who told me “Don’t give up. You can
accomplish anything you want
if you will just believe.” 
Then after supper guests will boast
about their dads, but I will toast
the man who won’t be here this year
to grace us with his smile.
 
I’ll thank the Lord for giving me
a dad who passed on faith to me
And as I see his empty chair,
my heart will fill with joy.

* My dad died on November 4, 2008 after a fourteen-year battle with cancer. My latest book “Sunday Rhymes and Reasons” is dedicated to him.

Abba Father, We Adore You
In celebration of our ultimate Father’s day

Abba Father, we adore You.
We Your children sing Your praise.
You are worthy to be trusted,
merciful in all Your ways.
Lifting us when we have stumbled,
holding us when we are weak,
whispering how much You love us
when our shame won’t let us speak.

Abba Father, we are grateful
for the gift of Christ Your Son
in Whose death and resurrection
life eternal was begun.
You adopted us as family,
deemed us worthy of Your love
and You promised to provide us
with the joys we’ve long dreamed of.

Abba Father, we acknowledge
how much we depend on You
when blind-sided by misfortune,
when we don’t know what to do.
Your perspective bids us focus
on faith’s outcomes we can’t see.
And Your unrelenting comfort
calms our raw anxieties.

tune: Joyful, Joyful We Adore Thee