That Certain Someone

A father’s love is a universal longing;
The Time is Right

There is a certain someone I’ve longed for all my life.

Someone to watch me catch the ball.
Someone to help me when I fall.
Someone to say “I know you tried.”
Someone to listen to my whys.
Someone to pay when I just can’t.
Someone to see things from my slant.
Someone to hold me when I’m scared.
Someone to make sure I’m prepared.

Someone who loves me yet says “no”
and when I protest lets me go.
Someone who waits till I return
and then inquires “Whaddya learn?”
Someone who knows me totally
and overlooks the worst in me.
Someone who takes me at my word
and doesn’t judge me as absurd.

Someone whose dealings are quite fair.
He arbitrates to clear the air.
Someone whose hugs aren’t always earned.
He never hoards the things he’s learned.
Someone whose friendship is for keeps.
He prays for me before he sleeps.
Someone whose patience won’t run dry.
He aches with me each time I cry.

This certain someone has a name
and though he’ll never dance with fame,
today I’m feeling mighty glad
that God gave me this one called dad.

The Time is Right

 Bob Barker’s well-deserved retirement comes with a price.

Five decades back
(ask Senor Wences),
Bob hosted Truth
or Consequences.

And even then
(his hair much darker)
we loved to watch
Roberto Barker.

As game show barker
he was best.
So Monty Hall
and all the rest

could not compete
or make a deal
the way The Price Is Right king
wheeled.

Bob bid contestants
“Come on down!”
while standing up
for basset hounds.

A dapper dresser,
Bob looked nice
while coaxing folks
to name their price.

From home I loved
to play along,
though most the time
my bid was wrong.

Still as I watched
The Price is Right,
my daily grind
seemed less uptight.

Bob Barker’s presence
on TV
recalled the good old days
for me.

But now those days
have come and gone.
The game show barker
isn’t on.

And so I pray
God gives him grace
as Bob prepares
for Life’s Showcase.

The Father of the Bride

Advice to Coach Holmgren from his pastor

When you stand beside your daughter
and you hear the Wedding March,
I am guessing you’ll feel something
like a sliver in your heart.

Though you’re thrilled beyond description
that your baby’s now a bride
you will have a strange sensation
like an itch deep down inside.

It’s a bittersweetish splinter
that you cannot tweezer out
cause it’s wedged and twisted sideways.
It’s what good grief’s all about.

It’s a shard that’s caused by memories
of those precious years you had
planting seeds of faith and wisdom
as her mentor, as her dad.

It’s a sliver that you’ll live with.
You’ll thank God that it is there
for it’s just one more reminder
what you’ve shared is really rare.

This weekend the coach of the Seattle Seahawks will walk his fourth (and youngest) daughter down the aisle. This poignant verse was written by Coach Mike Holmgren’s pastor who will officiate the wedding ceremony.

Mother Knows Best

A tribute to the poet’s mom who turned 80 this week

Robert Young
starred on TV
before my mom was old.
He played a father who knew best.
At least that’s what I’m told.

Those were the days
when dads were king.
Like Beaver Cleaver’s dad
or Ozzie Nelson…
or Ben Cartwright…
Their sons were lucky lads.

But what about
The Beaver’s mom?
Or Ricky’s?
Hoss’s too?
While dads are great,
there are some things
that only moms can do.

Like wipe your tears
when you fall down
and scrape your chubby knees
or say “God bless you” meaning it
each time you had to sneeze.

My mother
nursed me back to health
whenever I was sick.
She brought me juice
and comic books
and popsicles to lick.

She told me
that I was the best
when I was just okay.
But in her mind I really was
Her praises made my day.

She taught me
all about the Lord
and helped me understand
the pressures I would feel at school.
She helped me take a stand.

My mom has heart,
but also brains.
She helped me cram for tests.
And when I needed love advice,
it’s true, my mom knew best.

When I left home
and took a wife
She felt somehow replaced.
I know that it was hard for her.
I saw it in her face.

But bless her heart,
in time she saw
she had no need to fear.
I needed both. A wife and mom.
She smiled from ear to ear.

She’s one
creative grandmother.
My brother’s kids
and mine
love spending time
at Nana’s house
They think she’s quite divine.

When Dad got sick
and nearly died,
my mother made me proud.
She mustered courage,
modeled faith
and prayed for him out loud.

As time went by
and she slowed down,
my mom refused to stop.
This fashion plate
can still turn heads
and loves to thrift store shop.

At eighty,
this one who gave me birth
embraces each new day.
She journals what she did
each night
before she hits the hay.

Her name is Star.
Uncommon, yes?
That’s fine.
My mom’s unique.
She sparkles like
the jewels she wears
while cuddled with her Greek.

And so this tribute
to the Star
I proudly
call my mom.
Keep twinkling
and light my night
until God brings
your dawn.

*This poem is dedicated to my mother, Star Asimakoupoulos, who celebrated both her 80th birthday and 56th wedding anniversary this week.

Daughters Need Their Daddy

The reason Brett Favre should retire

Do not fret that Brett’s retiring.
Sixteen years is quite a run.
Number 4 is Green Bay’s glory.
‘Cept for Vince, he’s number one.

Not since Bart starred in the sixties
with his legendary arm
did good luck prevail at Lambeau.
Fans agree. Twas Brett Favre’s charm.

All the same young Brett discovered
life can sack you off the field.
When his dad died prematurely,
seemed his heart would never heal.

Holmgren coached the Gulfport QB
sanded smooth Brett’s rough MO,
challenged him to curb his drinking,
fathered him when he was low.

Now’s the time for Brett to father
while his girls are still at home.
Both his daughters need their daddy.
Life’s too short for just the phone.

Brothers and Sisters, Meet My Dad

The son of a preacher man introduces us to his pastor-father

There’s a man I take pride introducing.
I’m told that we look quite alike.
And the reason is simple. We’re family.
He taught me to ride my first bike.

Though I’m taller, I’m dwarfed by his stature.
I always will look up to him.
He’s the source of sage wisdom and counsel.
He’s my father, but also my friend.

I’m content to just stand in his shadow
while some seek the sunlight of fame.
I know that those rays can be toxic.
My father’s approval’s my aim.

Though he’s eighty and battling cancer,
the glint in his eye signals hope.
After all, this Marine’s a survivor.
And besides that, his faith helps him cope.

It’s a faith I’ve seen modeled for decades
on the frontlines of daily routines.
He battles temptations to worry
no matter how stressful life seems.

It’s a faith that he preached as a pastor
when my brother and I were both small.
I have witnessed his gifts in the pulpit.
He helped me discover God’s call.

And so on this day just for fathers
it gives me much pleasure to say,
“Our preacher this morning’s my hero.
May God’s grace flow through him today.”

The above poem was written by Greg as a creative way to introduce his father who is the guest preacher at Mercer Island Covenant  Church in suburban Seattle (where Greg is the senior pastor) on Fathers Day 2006.